Russian Girl Asks If She Can Find Happiness as a Larger Lady

From The Village:

Do larger girls have the chance to have a [happy] personal life?

This question is more for young people.

Do larger girls have the chance to have a [happy] personal life?

There’s the famous saying “you date the way you dress”, and for thing people, there are more people that want to meet you, naturally.

But what if your clothes are a bit “filled up”?) Because no-one knows how beautiful a person is on the inside from a distance.

Are there young people who really like larger girls and who find them attractive?

Comments from The Village:

Иван:

At least four of my female friend who are carrying a little visible excess weight have managed to get married, and it would seem have even had children.

On the other hand, there’s quite a high percentage of men who’d rather hang themselves. :)

Conclusion: an active search, charm, and inner beauty can work wonders.

Катя Пастернак: (responding to above)

Getting married, having children, and being happy in your private life don’t always come hand-in-hand.

Chuck_and_geek:

Don’t worry. IMHO, it’s even easier to find a decent guy like that. Someone who’s not fixated on narcissism or idiocy, who’s only interested in your look, because “I want to see you like the mirror does”, but someone who’s looking for a person who’s close to them first of all. As Artemiy Tatyanych says, “sh*t in the trash, idiots get banned”))

Jay IAMO Kay:

Larger is a loose concept. If your weight is your height minus 100, then it’s bearable. If your [height minus your weight] is less than 90, then you should think about how to lose the excess weight. It’s not worth separating your weight from your personality, your “inner beauty”, your “soul”. After all, responsibility for your weight comes down to you.

Alexastern: (responding to above) [Note: this commenter is the original author]

Still, I’m not asking about diets )) Of course you can waste a couple of years and lose weight, but my question is about something different: are there young people who find larger girls attractive? Not slim girls who used to be larger a long time ago ))

Ann_daniels:

Haha, there are! My husband :D Until we met, he had a problem with heavier, larger, and pure and simple, fat lasses :) But his world spun around my 45kg [7st 1lb, 100lb] :D. Every product has a buyer, a truth as old as the world.

Николай Авдеев:

There are pretty girls and girls who aren’t pretty, and it’s very subjective, it doesn’t matter how much you weight. There are lots of slim but scary girls who get married, and there are larger, beautiful girls that guys chase after. It depends on how you present yourself.

Ольга Ц.:

Everyone has a chance

Rina:

Of course there’s a chance! I have a colleague at work who’s a great example of this. She’s… well, let’s say she’s far from being “Thumbelina” but that hasn’t stopped her getting married. And, I note, to a very enviable man (it would seem). So don’t worry.

Алексей Psheniy:

Stop stuffing your face!
Although I like ladies who are large around the waist))

E A: (responding to above)

Well I like your comments)))

Роман Ботан:

My sister weighed and still weighs somewhere around 150. She’s been married twice. So at least they get regular sex.:)

Катя:

I’m not going to be the first to say this… everyone has a chance!

Chemy:

Skinny hipsters won’t love you, that’s a fact.

S-Ova: (responding to above)

Finally, an honest answer)

Masha Yanina:

My cousin only goes for larger girls. He loves them!

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